Thanks once again, do you know what ive cleaned up and bar having to pay someone to put some locks on the door, and iron bars, and a stun gun, and some tier gas, etc etc along with some other deterents my day has not been that bad. Worse things happen at sea just feel like i am having my fair share of shit thrown at me.

all of your comments have cheered me up, its good to know others know how you feel!!

so a big thanks to you all

and thanks for all the hugs and flowers, the flowers look lovely on my virtual mantelpiece